I envision a radical change in sexual education and others might not approve. I would like to see homosexual males and females teaching the opposite gender about their sex. The idea is that educated gay men will teach heterosexual females all about male form and sexuality. While educated lesbians will teach heterosexual males about female form and sexuality.
Who would be better equipped to comfortably teach others of the opposite gender than a lover/worshipper of one? In turn, I also feel having homosexuals teaching their gender about their bodies and orgasms. As we are all aware of the underlining shame involved with our bodies and sexuality that all sexual preferences have to overcome. The advantage I believe that a homosexual sex educator has is the ability to overcome societal pressures and stigma sooner. Something we can all benefit from.
Society Examples
Lately, I have been enjoying the new format for Chick Literature, aka modern-day romance. Which involves more realistic sex scenes and an evenness of both sexes’ pleasure. I also find better quality in television shows and movies depicting modern sexual encounters. Hopefully, it to influence and teach the next generations about healthy and equally satisfying sexual experiences.
The sexual imagery of old does not work as well as it did before the internet. Females are better equipped with a truer understanding of the female orgasm and how to work with their partners to achieve them. Recently I realized while watching Bridgerton, on Netflix, about the changing male sexual development over the years. When young men showed interest in sex, they attended a brothel to engage in sexual education but now they use porn.
I do not know if this is a dysfunctional way of thinking, but I believe females are luckier to know that their male companions might not be as sexually educated as them anymore. As it is, the current society’s expectation of both sexes is to stay monogamous during a relationship with only masturbation for extra sexual release. Which I feel is a good thing and much healthier than before.
Live Joy, Renee