This is an interesting topic and always causes me to stop and think about all my relationships. Are you really attracted to that person or are they a reincarnated soul from a past life?
The strangest thing about relationships is that they don’t teach us about how karma plays a big role. Karmic balance might be dictating who you love and who you hate. It might not be your free will after all.
Karma
With karma at play, energies need to find balance. Period. As it is written in the 12 Universal Laws. Meaning when someone is awful to you in a past life, they need to compensate for the energy imbalance in another lifetime. You could be falling in love with your enemy from a past life or have been born into the enemy’s family, to create balance.
I know I have stated in my past posts about every relationship you have is just a reflection of yourself. That is still true but is it just one layer to your relationships?
You may find yourself in love with a person, whom you fight a lot with or have different envisions of the future together. These are examples of past-life relationships that still need to find balance. When your timing together is not right or you just can’t see a future together, then you might not be meant to be.
Personal Story
I am from a family that is quite different from mine and I like to call myself the ‘White Sheep’ of the family. Through psychic readings, I have found out that one of my main lessons in this life is to not be so meek. In that past life, my family was similar to my current one. We had Karma to balance out, so I choose to be born into their family again.
There is nothing wrong with these types of situations. Because I still learn the lessons I need to. But I still feel differently towards my family. Me, I find them hard to relate to and to care about their concerns. I feel bad that I don’t love them as I feel a family member should. I believe how I feel about them is connected to the past life of being meek, from all the bad blood between us.
Other examples are past relationships, which might be old lovers from a past life. The relationship was never meant to work out, they just felt comfortable with you at the time. Don’t be so hard on yourself if you do come across a relationship like that. Take it for face value. Think about how the relationship contributed positively to your personal growth.
Past life regressions are a great way to find out why you love who you love and why you hate who you hate.
Live Joy, Renee